Alexandra Kay Finds Love Again: Meet Her New Boyfriend Rocko Beall

“Oh how rare it is, to find someone like you,” Kay shared on Instagram.


Lauren Jo Black

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February 14, 2024

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Alexandra Kay and Boyfriend, Rocko Beall; Photo via Instagram

After recently going through a rather public divorce, rising star Alexandra Kay has found love again with her new boyfriend, Rocko Beall! 

Who Is Alexandra Kay’s Boyfriend?

The singer/songwriter hard-launched her new relationship on Valentine’s Day via social media with a carousel of photos featuring her new boyfriend. According to her post, the “Everleave” singer is officially dating Rocko Beall, her guitarist and musical director. 

“Oh how rare it is, to find someone like you. ❤️ Happy Valentine’s Day, sugar. You make me the happiest girl in the world. 🌹,” the Illinois native sweetly shared in the caption.

According to his official Instagram account, Rocko Beall is a guitarist, songwriter, and teacher who resides in Nashville, Tenn. He often shares guitar tips via social media with the hopes of helping aspiring musicians. 

How Long Have They Been Dating?

It is unclear how long the pair have been dating. However, Kay recently opened up about the beginning of their relationship during an interview on The Zach Kuhn Show where she admitted that they started as friends and were initially hesitant to get into a relationship.  

“He was very much like, no, you are my boss…this is a recipe for disaster. I love you. We’re such good friends,” she explained. 

Alexanda Kay and Boyfriend, Rocko Beall; Photo via Instagram
Alexandra Kay and Boyfriend, Rocko Beall; Photo via Instagram

Kay Was The First To Make The Move

Kay, who wrote three songs with Beall for her debut album, All I’ve Ever Known, revealed she was the first one to come forward with her feelings. This moment took place about seven or eight months after her divorce. 

“I wasn’t overthinking it. I was just like, we were probably just drinking and hanging out and I was just like, ‘Do you feel this way too?’ And he’s like, ‘No.’ I was like, ‘What?” 

Due to their working relationship, Kay says Beall resisted dating her at first, but admitted that things quickly started to turn around when he realized his true feelings for her. 

“It was very much like him trying to push it away because of the whole, he works for me dynamic, and he’s like, ‘This could go so, so bad.’ And then we just kind of cooled it and hung out as friends, and then it just happened so organically,” she explained. 

She Wrote About Her Divorce On Her Debut Album

Fans are already predicting that Kay’s next set of new music will be themed around love as her last album chronicled her divorce. She writes from real-life experiences and that is evident throughout All I’ve Ever Known

The 11-track release dropped on October 26 and takes fans through the process of her divorce through some of the most “raw, real, and authentic” songs she’s ever released. 

Alexandra Kay; Photo Courtesy Facebook
Alexandra Kay; Photo Courtesy Facebook

“I’m going through a divorce from my ex who I was with for a decade,” Kay admitted to Music Mayhem.

This deeply personal album channels the emotions she experienced when watching her marriage fall apart.

“There are a lot of songs that are very, very specific to me that I don’t know how they’re going to go over with everybody else, because it was literally just me opening up a diary and just spilling my heart out onto the page and then recording it,” she shared honestly. “So that was the easiest part, but I think the hardest part of it so far is, you know, seeing everybody’s opinions online who don’t know me, who don’t know my ex, who don’t know my situation.” 


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Among the tracks on All I’ve Ever Known, the song “Everleave” seemed to resonate with fans the most. The song details her personal story of heartbreak, which so many listeners can relate to. While she admits it was one of the most difficult songs to write, it has proven to be one of the biggest songs of her career so far.  

Alexandra Kay continues to bring her music to fans around the U.S. and the world. She recently wrapped a headlining U.S. tour and will head to the U.K. and Germany for performances in the coming weeks.

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Lauren Jo Black, a University of Central Florida graduate, has immersed herself in the world of country music for over 15 years. In 2008, she co-founded CountryMusicIsLove, eventually selling it to a major record label in 2015. Following the rebranding of the website to Sounds Like Nashville, Black served as Editor-in-Chief for two and a half years. Currently, she assumes the role of Editor-in-Chief at Country Now and oversees Country Now’s content and digital footprint. Her extensive experience also encompasses her previous role as a Country Music Expert Writer for and her work being featured on She’s been spotlighted among Country Aircheck’s Women of Influence and received the 2012 Rising Star Award from the University of Central Florida. Black also spent time in front of the camera as host of Country Now Live, which brought live music directly to fans in 2021 when the majority of concerts were halted due to the pandemic. During this time, she hosted 24 weeks of live concerts via Country Now Live on Twitch with special guests such as Lady A, Dierks Bentley, Jordan Davis, Brett Young, and Jon Pardi. Over the course of her career, she has had the privilege of conducting interviews with some of the industry’s most prominent stars, including Reba McEntire, Blake Shelton, Luke Combs, Carrie Underwood, Luke Bryan, Miranda Lambert, Lainey Wilson, and many others. Lauren Jo Black is a longtime member of the Country Music Association and the Academy of Country Music.