Lady Antebellum Immediately Knew ‘What I’m Leaving For’ ‘Had To Be Recorded’

Life has changed quite a bit for Lady Antebellum since they first hit the country music scene in 2007. Six…

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Life has changed quite a bit for Lady Antebellum since they first hit the country music scene in 2007. Six children, five Grammy Awards, three marriages and a new record label later, Lady A’s Hillary Scott, Charles Kelley and Dave Haywood have lived a lot of life since their debut album and that’s all reflected on their latest project, Ocean.

The 13-song album features songs about life, love, heartbreak and everything in between and is a true representation of where the members of Lady Antebellum are at in life. And while each track is special to the trio for a number reasons, their latest single, the emotional “What I’m Leaving For,” strikes a chord with Scott, Kelley and Haywood as parents. Even though they didn’t have a hand in writing the song (it was co-written by Sam Ellis, Micah Premnath and Laura Veltz), they recently told Country Now and other media they “knew it had to be recorded” upon first listen.

“I listened to it and I’m like this is my life,” Scott shared. “I was that child because my parents toured. They toured with Reba [McEntire] for the majority of my childhood and so I was that little girl. Now, I’m that mom, I’m that parent, and so it was just I felt such a true very present representation of where I am, where we are as a band.”

While the reflective ballad that finds the band recalling the pain they feel when they leave their families to go out on the road, the emotional lyrics resonate with all parents, whether they are touring musicians or not.

“Take a look at our little paradise/ It ain’t much but baby, you and I/ Picked the right stars, made the right wish/ Ain’t nothing out there like this/ And it kills me that I gotta go/ Couldn’t do it if I didn’t know/ That every time I’m walking out that door/ You know what I’m leaving for,” they sing throughout the chorus.

Haywood recently recalled being “wrecked” by the song and sending it to a family member, who served in multiple tours overseas in the military.

“When I hear this song, I think about military families [and] how they could really relate to this song,” he said. “You know, what I’m leaving for…I’m doing it all for you.”

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“Once you have kids, you just look at the world differently and you look at it through their lens,” Kelley added. “It’s not just a selfish thing of us getting to do all this. You’re out there doing it for another reason and doing it for them to provide and let them have those experiences and let them be a part of it as well. This one hit really hard and I think a lot of this album is a lot of that honesty and is a lot of where we are currently.”

With “What I’m Leaving For” off to a great start at country radio (the song was the No.1 most-added track this week), Lady A is turning their attention to their upcoming Ocean 2020 Tour, which kicks off May 21 and runs through mid-September. Scott predicts that there might be a few tears when they perform the song on tour this summer. “That’s going to make for some emotional performances of that song over the next several months and on the tour, especially on the weekends when they aren’t with us,” she told press at Lady A’s recent No.1 party celebrating the success of “What If I Never Get Over You.”

Tears or no tears, the group hopes that their music continues to connect with others because that’s what it’s all about. “I think it’s going to connect more because people can see that our kids, our families are the most important thing to us,” Haywood explained.

Ocean is available to stream or download now.

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Lauren Jo Black is a longtime country music journalist, editor, host, and media personality whose work has helped shape the conversation around country music for nearly two decades. As the current Editor-in-Chief of Country Now, she has become one of the genre’s most respected voices, interviewing hundreds of country music’s biggest stars, including Dolly Parton, Garth Brooks, Reba McEntire, Shania Twain, Randy Travis, Luke Bryan, Carrie Underwood, Blake Shelton, Luke Combs, and countless others. Over the course of her career, Black’s written work and interviews have reached billions of country music fans worldwide. A 2009 graduate of the University of Central Florida, Black began her career by founding Country Music Is Love, one of country music’s earliest independent digital publications, which she later sold to a major record label in 2015 before it was rebranded as Sounds Like Nashville. She then served as the publication’s Editor-in-Chief for more than two years. Her work has also appeared in Forbes, and she previously served as the Country Music Expert for Answers.com. Widely recognized for her expertise, Black has appeared as a featured guest on The Bobby Bones Show, BobbyCast, and Scripps News Morning Rush, providing insight on country music’s biggest moments. She has also hosted Country Now Live, a concert series featuring performances from artists including Lady A, Dierks Bentley, Riley Green, Jordan Davis, Dustin Lynch, Gabby Barrett, Brett Young, Jon Pardi, Kip Moore, Chris Young, and more. The series has welcomed thousands of fans in person while reaching millions more online. In addition, she hosted Connect With Country Now, a weekly interview series featuring conversations with rising country stars. Throughout her career, Black has earned a reputation for discovering and championing artists long before they become household names. She has covered Luke Bryan since the early days of his career, beginning when he was writing songs for other artists, including Billy Currington’s No. 1 hit “Good Directions,” before stepping into the spotlight with his debut single, “All My Friends Say” and eventually becoming one of biggest names in music. She also gave Megan Moroney her first opportunity to walk a major red carpet as Country Now’s official guest correspondent at the 2022 CMA Awards. An interview she conducted in 2018 for Forbes.com with Luke Combs that inspired his multi-week No. 1 hit, “Doin’ This.” She has also hosted stages at CMA Fest, moderated an industry panel at Country Radio Seminar, and helped lead important conversations about the evolving landscape of country music media. Beyond journalism, Black has also used her platform to support charitable causes and highlight organizations making an impact. Through Country Now Live, she has helped raise awareness and support for St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, while also advocating for animal rescue through Country Now’s Pupdate series, spotlighting organizations including MuttNation Foundation, Wags & Walks, and Proverbs 12:10 Animal Rescue. Black has been recognized as one of Country Aircheck’s Women of Influence and received the 2012 Rising Star Award from the University of Central Florida. She is a longtime member of both the Country Music Association (CMA) and the Academy of Country Music (ACM). After nearly 20 years covering country music, Lauren Jo Black has spent her career telling the stories behind the artists, songs, and moments that have shaped the genre. Her first-ever book, Country Music Forever: An A-to-Z Celebration of Icons, Songs and Stories, brings that same passion and firsthand knowledge to the page, celebrating not only the legendary artists and timeless songs that have become the soundtrack to generations of fans, but also the places, traditions, and cultural moments that have made country music one of the most beloved genres around the world.