Alexandra Kay Emotionally Reflects on the Highs and Lows of Her Career: ‘When People Said No, I said Yes’

2022 is already shaping up to be a milestone year for Alexandra Kay. Soon, she’ll be hitting the road with…

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Lauren Jo Black

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January 10, 2022

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2022 is already shaping up to be a milestone year for Alexandra Kay. Soon, she’ll be hitting the road with country hitmakers Tracy Lawrence and Clay Walker and later this spring, she’ll join superstar Tim McGraw on his amphitheater tour, running through early June. 

Before her touring schedule kicks into high gear, the rising star took to social media to reflect on her musical journey through a series of a photos of New York City’s Times Square. 

Kay explained the photos and the meaning they have to her within the caption. 

“This first photo is of me in 2013 in Time’s Square for the first time after JUST signing my first record deal. When the label dropped me later that year.. a part of me thought.. ‘Just wait.. I’m going to be on one of those Billboards one day,’” her post began.

 

 
 
 
 
 
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She want on to share that the second photo was taken in 2018 and shows her in front of a Times Square billboard promoting the Netflix show Westside, in which she starred in alongside several other artists. 

“I was signed to my second record deal with a major label when this was taken.. When that label dropped me shortly after and the show only went for one season I thought.. ‘I’m going to keep working my ass off.. and one day I’ll see my name back up on a billboard in Times Square,’” she recalled.

“This third picture,” she continued, “was taken this year.. and if you look close..you’ll see my name right along with @brandondavis_music @russelled and the legendary @thetimmcgraw promoting his 2022 tour that I get to join him on this summer.”

 

 
 
 
 
 
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The “Tall Boys” singer then admitted seeing the photos brought her to tears as reflected on her musical journey.

“As a completely independent artist. I found all 3 of these photos today while scrolling through my pictures and it choked me up.. I really could have hung it up so many times.. but when people said no. I said Yes. And when I wanted to cry I decided to work instead.. and I’m just really grateful I did. ♥︎,” Kay wrote. 

 

 
 
 
 
 
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After capturing the attention of millions of fans on social media with her coffee covers, Alexandra Kay took her music on the road in 2021 with fellow viral artists Cooper Alan and Thomas Mac. The shows sold out across the country, proving TikTok can sell tickets

2021 also saw the release of “Tall Boys” and the rise in her social following as she became the most-followed solo female country artist on TikTok. 

“This entire year has felt like a dream come true. I have always kept my goals at the forefront of my mind during this ten year grind. I really feel like doing so and staying focused especially during the times when I’ve felt completely defeated is the reason I’m getting to experience so many highs this year,” Kay shared at the end of 2021. 

With a slew of tour dates on the books, Alexandra Kay is showing no signs of slowing down. 

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Lauren Jo Black is a longtime country music journalist, editor, host, and media personality whose work has helped shape the conversation around country music for nearly two decades. As the current Editor-in-Chief of Country Now, she has become one of the genre’s most respected voices, interviewing hundreds of country music’s biggest stars, including Dolly Parton, Garth Brooks, Reba McEntire, Shania Twain, Randy Travis, Luke Bryan, Carrie Underwood, Blake Shelton, Luke Combs, and countless others. Over the course of her career, Black’s written work and interviews have reached billions of country music fans worldwide. A 2009 graduate of the University of Central Florida, Black began her career by founding Country Music Is Love, one of country music’s earliest independent digital publications, which she later sold to a major record label in 2015 before it was rebranded as Sounds Like Nashville. She then served as the publication’s Editor-in-Chief for more than two years. Her work has also appeared in Forbes, and she previously served as the Country Music Expert for Answers.com. Widely recognized for her expertise, Black has appeared as a featured guest on The Bobby Bones Show, BobbyCast, and Scripps News Morning Rush, providing insight on country music’s biggest moments. She has also hosted Country Now Live, a concert series featuring performances from artists including Lady A, Dierks Bentley, Riley Green, Jordan Davis, Dustin Lynch, Gabby Barrett, Brett Young, Jon Pardi, Kip Moore, Chris Young, and more. The series has welcomed thousands of fans in person while reaching millions more online. In addition, she hosted Connect With Country Now, a weekly interview series featuring conversations with rising country stars. Throughout her career, Black has earned a reputation for discovering and championing artists long before they become household names. She has covered Luke Bryan since the early days of his career, beginning when he was writing songs for other artists, including Billy Currington’s No. 1 hit “Good Directions,” before stepping into the spotlight with his debut single, “All My Friends Say” and eventually becoming one of biggest names in music. She also gave Megan Moroney her first opportunity to walk a major red carpet as Country Now’s official guest correspondent at the 2022 CMA Awards. An interview she conducted in 2018 for Forbes.com with Luke Combs that inspired his multi-week No. 1 hit, “Doin’ This.” She has also hosted stages at CMA Fest, moderated an industry panel at Country Radio Seminar, and helped lead important conversations about the evolving landscape of country music media. Beyond journalism, Black has also used her platform to support charitable causes and highlight organizations making an impact. Through Country Now Live, she has helped raise awareness and support for St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, while also advocating for animal rescue through Country Now’s Pupdate series, spotlighting organizations including MuttNation Foundation, Wags & Walks, and Proverbs 12:10 Animal Rescue. Black has been recognized as one of Country Aircheck’s Women of Influence and received the 2012 Rising Star Award from the University of Central Florida. She is a longtime member of both the Country Music Association (CMA) and the Academy of Country Music (ACM). After nearly 20 years covering country music, Lauren Jo Black has spent her career telling the stories behind the artists, songs, and moments that have shaped the genre. Her first-ever book, Country Music Forever: An A-to-Z Celebration of Icons, Songs and Stories, brings that same passion and firsthand knowledge to the page, celebrating not only the legendary artists and timeless songs that have become the soundtrack to generations of fans, but also the places, traditions, and cultural moments that have made country music one of the most beloved genres around the world.