How Did Miranda Lambert Meet Her Husband, Brendan McLoughlin?

Fans have been gushing over Miranda Lambert and Brendan McLoughlin‘s sweet love story since their surprise secret wedding announcement in…

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Fans have been gushing over Miranda Lambert and Brendan McLoughlin‘s sweet love story since their surprise secret wedding announcement in early 2019, but many may not recall the unique way the couple first met.

Lambert and McLoughlin, a former NYPD officer, first crossed paths in 2018 when she was visiting the Big Apple to make media rounds in support of the Pistol Annies album, Interstate Gospel. In fact, she has her Pistol Annies bandmates, Angaleena Presley and Ashley Monroe, to thank for their initial meeting.

Miranda Lambert and Brendan McLoughlin; Photo via Instagram
Miranda Lambert and Brendan McLoughlin; Photo via Instagram

In a 2019 interview with The New York Times, Lambert recalled meeting McLoughlin for the first time and shared how Presley and Monroe played an important role in their relationship.

“Our record came out the day after Halloween, and we did Good Morning America. My husband was doing security there for the show,” she explained. “My girlfriends, the Annies, saw him and knew I might be ready to hang out with someone. They invited him to our show behind my back. They plucked him for me. My security guy Tom, he was in on it too. He said to me, ‘He’s here. And he’s pretty.’

Following a whirlwind romance, the couple tied the knot privately on January 26, 2019. Lambert waited until mid-February to share the news with fans.

“I was married before, and it was a huge wedding and everything was very public. So was my divorce. I learned then that it’s not for everybody else. This is my actual life. With Brendan, I made it a point to keep it as private as I could for as long as I could,” Lambert later told People of her previous marriage to Blake Shelton and her decision to wed secretly.

When marrying the former law enforcement officer, Lambert also took on a new role: stepmom. McLoughlin is a father to a 3-year-old son that he parents his ex, Kaihla Rettinger.

Months after their wedding, Lambert told Extra, “My stepson is amazing. I’m loving that whole phase, and I’ve raised a million dogs, so I feel like I’ve got that part of my womanly/motherly thing is full, so this is a whole new journey. It’s great.”

Throughout the past few years, fans have followed the couple’s adventures on Instagram. When the world shut down in 2020, the couple made their own fun when they embarked on a 1,000-mile camping trip in their new Airstream, which they nicknamed “The Sherriff.” They documented their trip on social media and Lambert revealed that they became experts at living the road life.

“B drives too and is the best navigator. We can set up camp in under 10 minutes once we pull in. Took a few times but we worked out the kinks,” she wrote at the time. “One of my favorite things on this trip was making dad’s classic recipe ‘campfire casserole’ in our Dutch Oven on the camp fire coals! Of course, we had to face time Rick Lambert to make sure we knew the tricks of the trade, but Brendan has cooking anything in this cast iron down to an art now.”

The “Bluebird” singer later opened up about their relationship during an appearance on the Taste of Country Nights radio show.

“We’re pretty much newlyweds since we’ve only been married a year and a half, but we’ve already survived a pandemic so I think we’re golden,” the Texas native said in July of 2020.

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McLoughlin has become a frequent guest star in Lambert’s music videos, including “Settling Down,” “Tequila Does (Telemitry Remix)” and “If I Was A Cowboy.” He’s been by her side as she celebrated career accomplishments as well, including the opening of Miranda Lambert’s Casa Rosa Nashville and her induction into the Cowgirl Hall of Fame.

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Lauren Jo Black is a longtime country music journalist, editor, host, and media personality whose work has helped shape the conversation around country music for nearly two decades. As the current Editor-in-Chief of Country Now, she has become one of the genre’s most respected voices, interviewing hundreds of country music’s biggest stars, including Dolly Parton, Garth Brooks, Reba McEntire, Shania Twain, Randy Travis, Luke Bryan, Carrie Underwood, Blake Shelton, Luke Combs, and countless others. Over the course of her career, Black’s written work and interviews have reached billions of country music fans worldwide. A 2009 graduate of the University of Central Florida, Black began her career by founding Country Music Is Love, one of country music’s earliest independent digital publications, which she later sold to a major record label in 2015 before it was rebranded as Sounds Like Nashville. She then served as the publication’s Editor-in-Chief for more than two years. Her work has also appeared in Forbes, and she previously served as the Country Music Expert for Answers.com. Widely recognized for her expertise, Black has appeared as a featured guest on The Bobby Bones Show, BobbyCast, and Scripps News Morning Rush, providing insight on country music’s biggest moments. She has also hosted Country Now Live, a concert series featuring performances from artists including Lady A, Dierks Bentley, Riley Green, Jordan Davis, Dustin Lynch, Gabby Barrett, Brett Young, Jon Pardi, Kip Moore, Chris Young, and more. The series has welcomed thousands of fans in person while reaching millions more online. In addition, she hosted Connect With Country Now, a weekly interview series featuring conversations with rising country stars. Throughout her career, Black has earned a reputation for discovering and championing artists long before they become household names. She has covered Luke Bryan since the early days of his career, beginning when he was writing songs for other artists, including Billy Currington’s No. 1 hit “Good Directions,” before stepping into the spotlight with his debut single, “All My Friends Say” and eventually becoming one of biggest names in music. She also gave Megan Moroney her first opportunity to walk a major red carpet as Country Now’s official guest correspondent at the 2022 CMA Awards. An interview she conducted in 2018 for Forbes.com with Luke Combs that inspired his multi-week No. 1 hit, “Doin’ This.” She has also hosted stages at CMA Fest, moderated an industry panel at Country Radio Seminar, and helped lead important conversations about the evolving landscape of country music media. Beyond journalism, Black has also used her platform to support charitable causes and highlight organizations making an impact. Through Country Now Live, she has helped raise awareness and support for St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, while also advocating for animal rescue through Country Now’s Pupdate series, spotlighting organizations including MuttNation Foundation, Wags & Walks, and Proverbs 12:10 Animal Rescue. Black has been recognized as one of Country Aircheck’s Women of Influence and received the 2012 Rising Star Award from the University of Central Florida. She is a longtime member of both the Country Music Association (CMA) and the Academy of Country Music (ACM). After nearly 20 years covering country music, Lauren Jo Black has spent her career telling the stories behind the artists, songs, and moments that have shaped the genre. Her first-ever book, Country Music Forever: An A-to-Z Celebration of Icons, Songs and Stories, brings that same passion and firsthand knowledge to the page, celebrating not only the legendary artists and timeless songs that have become the soundtrack to generations of fans, but also the places, traditions, and cultural moments that have made country music one of the most beloved genres around the world.