Lauren Alaina Reveals How Husband Cam Arnold Helped ‘All My Exes’ With Chase Matthew Become a Hit [Exclusive]

“Cameron played this song for Chase and was like, ‘I need you to do this song with my wife.'”

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Lauren Alaina is giving fans the full backstory behind her viral collab with Chase Matthew, “All My Exes.” What started as a half-finished idea from friends in a writers’ room quickly turned into one of the most talked-about songs of her career.

During the latest Country Now Pupdate, Alaina shared the story behind the song as she sat with her pups, Nola and Opry, by her side.

She co-wrote the track with Ben Johnson, Whitney Phillips, and Jimmy Gutch, and explained that the song was actually written a few years ago, long before she was happily married and a mom to her daughter Beni Doll.

Lauren Alaina with her Daughter, Beni Doll, and Dogs, Nola and Opry; Photo by Osprey Media
Lauren Alaina with her Daughter, Beni Doll, and Dogs, Nola and Opry; Photo by Osprey Media

“The whole session was different than any other song I’ve ever written,” she revealed.

Her co-writers had already begun the song, and Johnson reached out to see if she’d be interested in jumping in to help finish it.

“It’s so interesting and so amazing that he did that because the topic of the song is not something that I’m typically writing anymore. I’m married and well back then, I don’t know if I was quite married yet, but I definitely think I was engaged and it was just really fun to write about a different phase of my life,” she shared.

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“This song is definitely not about being engaged and getting married, but I’m so glad he did because it challenged me almost to write about a different topic and I wrote it about the people before my husband and it feels like a different lifetime.”

The first person to really champion the track was her husband, Cam Arnold, who immediately believed it needed to be released. In fact, fans have him to thank for the song landing in the hands of Alaina’s duet partner, Chase Matthew. After meeting Matthew on tour with Jason Aldean, Arnold made sure he heard it.

“Cameron played this song for Chase and was like, ‘I need you to do this song with my wife. I’ve been trying to get her to release this song,’” Alaina revealed.

Lauren Alaina, Chase Matthew; Photo by Jessie Addleman
Lauren Alaina, Chase Matthew; Photo by Jessie Addleman

Alaina later played the song for Matthew herself, completely  unaware that he had already heard it.

“So then I played it for Chase and he acted like he’d never heard it before,” she said. “They did a whole thing. But anyway, we ended up recording it and my husband was right, it blew up for us and it’s streaming like crazy. We just sent it to Country Radio, which I’m so excited about and I’ve been playing shows and people are singing it and it’s just so exciting.”

The songstress says she has “high hopes” for the tune.

“I got a baby to feed. Let’s make it at number one,” she laughed.

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“All My Exes” debuted with the biggest first-week streaming numbers of Lauren Alaina’s career and was the No.1 most-added song at country radio upon release.

The song’s success is now shaping the direction of her upcoming album. While the track will definitely be included, Alaina acknowledged that it has its own sonic lane.

“I thought [the album] was finished, but we had this moment with ‘All My Exes’ and like I said, it was kind of a departure sonically. So I’ve actually written more songs to marry that one basically so that it’s not just a lone soldier on the project. So I’m doing a few more songs that kind of fit with that vibe and then it’ll be done.”

As fans anticipate the arrival of Lauren Alaina’s yet-to-be-announced album, they can catch her on the road with Rascal Flatts in early 2026. 

For more with Lauren on the Country Now Pupdate, click HERE.

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Lauren Jo Black

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Lauren Jo Black is a longtime country music journalist, editor, host, and media personality whose work has helped shape the conversation around country music for nearly two decades. As the current Editor-in-Chief of Country Now, she has become one of the genre’s most respected voices, interviewing hundreds of country music’s biggest stars, including Dolly Parton, Garth Brooks, Reba McEntire, Shania Twain, Randy Travis, Luke Bryan, Carrie Underwood, Blake Shelton, Luke Combs, and countless others. Over the course of her career, Black’s written work and interviews have reached billions of country music fans worldwide. A 2009 graduate of the University of Central Florida, Black began her career by founding Country Music Is Love, one of country music’s earliest independent digital publications, which she later sold to a major record label in 2015 before it was rebranded as Sounds Like Nashville. She then served as the publication’s Editor-in-Chief for more than two years. Her work has also appeared in Forbes, and she previously served as the Country Music Expert for Answers.com. Widely recognized for her expertise, Black has appeared as a featured guest on The Bobby Bones Show, BobbyCast, and Scripps News Morning Rush, providing insight on country music’s biggest moments. She has also hosted Country Now Live, a concert series featuring performances from artists including Lady A, Dierks Bentley, Riley Green, Jordan Davis, Dustin Lynch, Gabby Barrett, Brett Young, Jon Pardi, Kip Moore, Chris Young, and more. The series has welcomed thousands of fans in person while reaching millions more online. In addition, she hosted Connect With Country Now, a weekly interview series featuring conversations with rising country stars. Throughout her career, Black has earned a reputation for discovering and championing artists long before they become household names. She has covered Luke Bryan since the early days of his career, beginning when he was writing songs for other artists, including Billy Currington’s No. 1 hit “Good Directions,” before stepping into the spotlight with his debut single, “All My Friends Say” and eventually becoming one of biggest names in music. She also gave Megan Moroney her first opportunity to walk a major red carpet as Country Now’s official guest correspondent at the 2022 CMA Awards. An interview she conducted in 2018 for Forbes.com with Luke Combs that inspired his multi-week No. 1 hit, “Doin’ This.” She has also hosted stages at CMA Fest, moderated an industry panel at Country Radio Seminar, and helped lead important conversations about the evolving landscape of country music media. Beyond journalism, Black has also used her platform to support charitable causes and highlight organizations making an impact. Through Country Now Live, she has helped raise awareness and support for St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, while also advocating for animal rescue through Country Now’s Pupdate series, spotlighting organizations including MuttNation Foundation, Wags & Walks, and Proverbs 12:10 Animal Rescue. Black has been recognized as one of Country Aircheck’s Women of Influence and received the 2012 Rising Star Award from the University of Central Florida. She is a longtime member of both the Country Music Association (CMA) and the Academy of Country Music (ACM). After nearly 20 years covering country music, Lauren Jo Black has spent her career telling the stories behind the artists, songs, and moments that have shaped the genre. Her first-ever book, Country Music Forever: An A-to-Z Celebration of Icons, Songs and Stories, brings that same passion and firsthand knowledge to the page, celebrating not only the legendary artists and timeless songs that have become the soundtrack to generations of fans, but also the places, traditions, and cultural moments that have made country music one of the most beloved genres around the world.