Toby Keith and Tricia Lucus: Inside Their Love Story

Toby Keith is known for his big personality and that’s exactly what caught the attention of his wife Tricia Lucus…

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Lauren Jo Black

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March 24, 2020

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Tricia Lucus and Toby Keith; Photo by Jason Kempin/Getty Images

Toby Keith is known for his big personality and that’s exactly what caught the attention of his wife Tricia Lucus when they first met at an Oklahoma nightclub in 1981.

“I was 19 and he was 20,” Tricia told People. “He was just one of those larger-than-life guys, full of confidence.”

They danced together and began dating shortly after. During this time, Keith (whose real last name is Covel) would spend his days working in the oil fields and his nights performing at local bars with his band Easy Money.

After dating for three years, the couple tied the knot on March 24, 1984. The singer adopted Shelley, Tricia’s daughter from a previous marriage, after the wedding and in 1985, they welcomed their daughter, Krystal. Their son Stelen arrived years later, in 1997.

The oil fields “went bust” soon after and Keith decided to use the opportunity to focus on his music.

Times were getting a bit tough on the home front, however. Tricia was juggling raising a family while the creditors hounded them.

“He’d say, ‘Trish, one of these days, my time is coming. Hang in there,’” Tricia recalled.

His time came in 1993 when his debut single, “Should’ve Been a Cowboy,” hit country radio. The song skyrocketed to the top of the charts and would later become the most-played country song of the 1990s.

His celebrity status continued to rise and Tricia remained by his side through it all.

“Dozens of people told Tricia, ‘You need to go tell your old man to get a real job,’” the singer shared with Country Weekly. “It took a strong-hearted and loving woman to say, ‘He’s good enough at music that I’ve got to let him try. And it’ll be a great shot for both of us if he can make it work.’”

Keith’s career reached new heights as time went on. He garnered accoladed after accolade, brought in multimillion-dollar endorsements, started a line of liquor and even launched his own line of restaurants, Toby Keith’s I Love This Bar & Grill.

Once dubbed “country music’s $500 million man” by Forbes, Keith hasn’t let fame get in the way of his marriage or family.

“I absolutely love performing and writing songs,” he says, “but being at home with my wife, Tricia, and my three kids is the best feeling of all.”

Toby and Tricia continue to reside in Oklahoma with their children and grandchildren nearby.

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Lauren Jo Black

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Lauren Jo Black is a longtime country music journalist, editor, host, and media personality whose work has helped shape the conversation around country music for nearly two decades. As the current Editor-in-Chief of Country Now, she has become one of the genre’s most respected voices, interviewing hundreds of country music’s biggest stars, including Dolly Parton, Garth Brooks, Reba McEntire, Shania Twain, Randy Travis, Luke Bryan, Carrie Underwood, Blake Shelton, Luke Combs, and countless others. Over the course of her career, Black’s written work and interviews have reached billions of country music fans worldwide. A 2009 graduate of the University of Central Florida, Black began her career by founding Country Music Is Love, one of country music’s earliest independent digital publications, which she later sold to a major record label in 2015 before it was rebranded as Sounds Like Nashville. She then served as the publication’s Editor-in-Chief for more than two years. Her work has also appeared in Forbes, and she previously served as the Country Music Expert for Answers.com. Widely recognized for her expertise, Black has appeared as a featured guest on The Bobby Bones Show, BobbyCast, and Scripps News Morning Rush, providing insight on country music’s biggest moments. She has also hosted Country Now Live, a concert series featuring performances from artists including Lady A, Dierks Bentley, Riley Green, Jordan Davis, Dustin Lynch, Gabby Barrett, Brett Young, Jon Pardi, Kip Moore, Chris Young, and more. The series has welcomed thousands of fans in person while reaching millions more online. In addition, she hosted Connect With Country Now, a weekly interview series featuring conversations with rising country stars. Throughout her career, Black has earned a reputation for discovering and championing artists long before they become household names. She has covered Luke Bryan since the early days of his career, beginning when he was writing songs for other artists, including Billy Currington’s No. 1 hit “Good Directions,” before stepping into the spotlight with his debut single, “All My Friends Say” and eventually becoming one of biggest names in music. She also gave Megan Moroney her first opportunity to walk a major red carpet as Country Now’s official guest correspondent at the 2022 CMA Awards. An interview she conducted in 2018 for Forbes.com with Luke Combs that inspired his multi-week No. 1 hit, “Doin’ This.” She has also hosted stages at CMA Fest, moderated an industry panel at Country Radio Seminar, and helped lead important conversations about the evolving landscape of country music media. Beyond journalism, Black has also used her platform to support charitable causes and highlight organizations making an impact. Through Country Now Live, she has helped raise awareness and support for St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, while also advocating for animal rescue through Country Now’s Pupdate series, spotlighting organizations including MuttNation Foundation, Wags & Walks, and Proverbs 12:10 Animal Rescue. Black has been recognized as one of Country Aircheck’s Women of Influence and received the 2012 Rising Star Award from the University of Central Florida. She is a longtime member of both the Country Music Association (CMA) and the Academy of Country Music (ACM). After nearly 20 years covering country music, Lauren Jo Black has spent her career telling the stories behind the artists, songs, and moments that have shaped the genre. Her first-ever book, Country Music Forever: An A-to-Z Celebration of Icons, Songs and Stories, brings that same passion and firsthand knowledge to the page, celebrating not only the legendary artists and timeless songs that have become the soundtrack to generations of fans, but also the places, traditions, and cultural moments that have made country music one of the most beloved genres around the world.