Inside Dave Haywood and Kelli Cashiola’s Picture-Perfect Love Story

It would be easy to assume that Lady Antebellum’s Dave Haywood and his wife Kelli Cashiola rushed into marriage (they…

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Lauren Jo Black

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It would be easy to assume that Lady Antebellum’s Dave Haywood and his wife Kelli Cashiola rushed into marriage (they went public with their relationship and were engaged about a month after), but that wasn’t the case at all. Haywood and Cashiola’s relationship blossomed after several years of friendship, and it’s something that Haywood is very thankful for.

“I really thought she was cute and we had a lot in common, but we didn’t date for probably four or five years,” Haywood explains. “We were friends. We’d go on trips together with different groups of friends. And so we really had a great foundation.”

After a date to one of Nashville’s most popular steakhouses, Kayne Prime, Haywood and Cashiola were officially an item. After that, Haywood says they “fell hard and quick.”

“Once we got together, we got engaged within a really short time, got married really quick because we knew each other so well,” the Georgia native shares. “Having that foundation of knowing each other for five, six, seven years was really just a beautiful thing.”

Haywood pulled out all the stops when proposing to Cashiola, who was Vice President of Marketing / Brand Management for Warner Music Nashville at the time. He picked her up from her office, handed her a blindfold and then drove home. When they arrived, she took off her blindfold to find where Haywood had spelled out “will you marry me?” in Christmas lights.

The wedding, which was reportedly “straight out of a movie,” took place April 14, 2012 at Front Porch Farms in Ashland City, Tennessee. Dave Barnes provided the music for the nuptials, while Haywood’s bandmates, Charles Kelley and Hillary Scott, attended the ceremony.

The couple has two children; Cash Van (born 2014) and Lillie Renee (born 2017).

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Lauren Jo Black is a longtime country music journalist, editor, host, and media personality whose work has helped shape the conversation around country music for nearly two decades. As the current Editor-in-Chief of Country Now, she has become one of the genre’s most respected voices, interviewing hundreds of country music’s biggest stars, including Dolly Parton, Garth Brooks, Reba McEntire, Shania Twain, Randy Travis, Luke Bryan, Carrie Underwood, Blake Shelton, Luke Combs, and countless others. Over the course of her career, Black’s written work and interviews have reached billions of country music fans worldwide. A 2009 graduate of the University of Central Florida, Black began her career by founding Country Music Is Love, one of country music’s earliest independent digital publications, which she later sold to a major record label in 2015 before it was rebranded as Sounds Like Nashville. She then served as the publication’s Editor-in-Chief for more than two years. Her work has also appeared in Forbes, and she previously served as the Country Music Expert for Answers.com. Widely recognized for her expertise, Black has appeared as a featured guest on The Bobby Bones Show, BobbyCast, and Scripps News Morning Rush, providing insight on country music’s biggest moments. She has also hosted Country Now Live, a concert series featuring performances from artists including Lady A, Dierks Bentley, Riley Green, Jordan Davis, Dustin Lynch, Gabby Barrett, Brett Young, Jon Pardi, Kip Moore, Chris Young, and more. The series has welcomed thousands of fans in person while reaching millions more online. In addition, she hosted Connect With Country Now, a weekly interview series featuring conversations with rising country stars. Throughout her career, Black has earned a reputation for discovering and championing artists long before they become household names. She has covered Luke Bryan since the early days of his career, beginning when he was writing songs for other artists, including Billy Currington’s No. 1 hit “Good Directions,” before stepping into the spotlight with his debut single, “All My Friends Say” and eventually becoming one of biggest names in music. She also gave Megan Moroney her first opportunity to walk a major red carpet as Country Now’s official guest correspondent at the 2022 CMA Awards. An interview she conducted in 2018 for Forbes.com with Luke Combs that inspired his multi-week No. 1 hit, “Doin’ This.” She has also hosted stages at CMA Fest, moderated an industry panel at Country Radio Seminar, and helped lead important conversations about the evolving landscape of country music media. Beyond journalism, Black has also used her platform to support charitable causes and highlight organizations making an impact. Through Country Now Live, she has helped raise awareness and support for St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, while also advocating for animal rescue through Country Now’s Pupdate series, spotlighting organizations including MuttNation Foundation, Wags & Walks, and Proverbs 12:10 Animal Rescue. Black has been recognized as one of Country Aircheck’s Women of Influence and received the 2012 Rising Star Award from the University of Central Florida. She is a longtime member of both the Country Music Association (CMA) and the Academy of Country Music (ACM). After nearly 20 years covering country music, Lauren Jo Black has spent her career telling the stories behind the artists, songs, and moments that have shaped the genre. Her first-ever book, Country Music Forever: An A-to-Z Celebration of Icons, Songs and Stories, brings that same passion and firsthand knowledge to the page, celebrating not only the legendary artists and timeless songs that have become the soundtrack to generations of fans, but also the places, traditions, and cultural moments that have made country music one of the most beloved genres around the world.